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I'm in a situation. My cat ran away night before last ago. He hasn't returned yet. I'm losing hope. I'm feeling sooo sad. Almost suicidally sad. My boyfriend lives a state away from me. I am alone here. More than anything I want him here by me. He has some time off of work and could possibly be here. He chooses not to. He has been supportive over the phone when I need to talk to him. I'm very hurt that he decided not to come be with me in this time. There was another time when I needed him and it was the same situation where he could have possibly came to visit but chose not to. This was when I was in the hospital for a surgery. I love his phone support but I'm not sure this is enough... I'm hurting very much right now I dont want to do anything I'll regret. If anyone has advice I'd love to here it. We've been together for 6 months now and he has yet to come to my house. I lived with him for 3 months and prior to that I visited him 2x. Just some background history.
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- Re: So sad need some help brendella
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MoreThis is a reply to # 669,194Hoping this gives you some hope. I have indoor cats. One of my indoor cats ran outside last winter was gone for exactly one week. I was out there every night calling her and she never came. I left some food and a warm little crate with some blankets and ended up finding her...she came back to the food and the blnket with her scent on it. Maybe something like this will work for you? Don't give up just yet.
Your boyfriend? Well, don't expect things to change overnight. I would not count on him for too much these days... Take care of yourself. Help yourself through this situation and try to stay strong....then instead of finding your missing cat, find that missing boyfriend a replacement!! I am kidding partly, but listen to your inner voice- it is never wrong. You know the answers, you just need to look at it clearly.
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I'd like to agree with the above poster about the cat. I also have a cat and it went missing for 7 days and then one day it came home again. I guess cats just do that sometimes. One thing to keep in mind is that cat's never venture too far from home. Hiding under a porch is pretty popular. If you are still really distressed I've heard there are people you can hire to find your missing pet.- Re: So sad need some help Autumn
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This is a reply to # 669,196Hello,
The sentence that jumped out at me was, "I'm not sure this is enough."
Sounds sure to me: it's not enough!
If he doesn't visit over the cat, I might understand especially if he hasn't been to your house and hasn't even met the cat. What really concerns me is that he didn't come for the surgery. If he's a state away, does that mean driving the entire width of Texas? I could understand he can't always do that when he wants, but if in 6 months he hasn't done it at all, then it sounds like there is other stuff going on in his life and he is attending to that and I am not sure we can do anything about that right now. In fact, it sounds like you already let him know how you feel and that didn't change his plans.
One lesson I noticed about men is that they know where they are going, and who they want to be with when they get there. Even if they find out later that they made a mistake, at least they know! And, the man doesn't ask me for directions.
Meanwhile, how are you recovering from the surgery? What other support do you have - family, friends and such?
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- Re: So sad need some help Autumn
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- Re: So sad need some help Atalanta
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- Re: So sad need some help #855
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This is a reply to # 669,194Poor little kitty; I bet he/she comes home.
My daughter has a similar situation. She and her "boyfriend" lived together in non-harmony for 3 years. Then , when it became intolerable, he moved out.
He comes and spends the night with her about twice a month but that's all. I do not know if this is the same with you but: he doesn't move back in with her because he didn't like living with her. She doesn't "get it." He , and her other family members, can only stand being with her in short spurts. She's ok for half an hour; anything after that and we become either angry or uncomfortable.
so, I doubt if your boyfriend feels this way also; but considerable the possibility that he cares for you but he simply wants to keep his distance.Advertisement
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- Re: So sad need some help brendella
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