" just have to do it when he's not looking."
my wife ever pulled any crap like that, it would unleash a storm, the outcome of which she would have little power over. If I were sick of having her around, I'd recognize that any jury would recognize
Iodine as a POISON, and the DA could be coaxed into charging such adulteresses with attempted murder. Even though
Iodine is not really a poison, there's enough people around who THINK it is, to get a conviction, and the truth is sometimes less important than what people believe.
Howdja like to be defending yourself against charges of attempted murder ?? You may win, but imagine the cost.
Although you women are obviously highly driven by your emotions, my advice to you is to resist this and never put anything in anyones food without their knowledge. It's not ethical, and you might end up getting your asswhooped over it. On the other hand, If your husband is a poosywhipped pantyboy, then you could possibly get away with anything.
How about if I determine that substance X is "good" for you, and slip it in your drink when you're not looking ? Like, mescaline - it's been proven to have many benefits. How would you like to just all of a sudden start tripping ??
How do you like having your water fluoridated, without being told ??
I would never put ANYTHING not generally recognized as a food substance in anyones diet without their knowledge in advance.
This is just my opinion, I don't want to start or provoke argument or spend all day talking about this. Take it for whatever it may seem to be worth, or, ignore it if you like. Have a Great Day !! :))