By the way, Harley Girl, if you want to talk about unfair. Very close friends of ours just lost their 16-yr-old son to stage 4 brain cancer. He went in the hospital on a Tuesday for tests to see why he had severe headaches and died Friday. This was 3 months ago. You talk about unfair. When I say these are the best people I've ever had the privilege of knowing, this doesn't even begin to touch the surface of what they have done for others. Their son was the quintessenial "good kid." Honor student, musician, baseball player, headed to college to be a lawyer and just damn nice. I don't think it gets any unfairer than this. Believe it or not, they are turning it into something positive the best they can and it has strengthened their faith like you wouldn't believe. I don't know why Nate had to go, but I like to think of the fact that there is somebody in the hereafter who can be doing some good for rest of us poor wretches that are left here.