Re: Is it just me or is it them?

it gets better when you get older and learn to ignore the man and take charge.  i heard of talk sex with sue the other night that the average male takes 5 to 6 strokes to ejaculate, so you have to get inventive.  read books.  most females cannot have orgasms from intercourse and some cannot even have them at all.  if a man doesn't live up to your sexpectations, get a different one.  or, get a pet and forget about it.  to them, you can do no wrong.  or...simply be honest from the start: