Is it just me or is it them?

I never have cllmaxs. I can give them to myself just fine.
I was with my last boyfriend for about two years. I had cllmaxs ocassionally and was convinced that the reason I wasn't normally having an cllmax was because he would not often perform oral sex on me and that he just couldn't last long.
Well now that relationship has ended and I am having sex with someone else. We've had sex probably about 5 or 6 times. He has not brougth me to cllmax either except for once but he was using his fingers, as we had no condoms...and that took forever. Maybe it's just me. Maybe I'm near frigid or taste bad or something.
I don't know what to do. I'm only 21 years old. I'd like to join in on the fun.
What really irritates me is that every person I've been with has nothing but amazed, extremely satisfied conpliments for my oral sex skills...but I never get it in return.