Hi Dearone,
Try cocoa butter instead. I feel if your hair is strongly falling out because of shea and triconella disease, then you may need to switch to cocoa butter instead. The reason i say this as i dont know the cause's behind why people's hair is falling out more with shea butter as its not the case with me or my family. So cocoa butter should be ok. If not then stop treatment alltogether.
You do not need to blow dry your hair everyday. I blow dry it just to get the thickeness and more shine to my hair.