I have the same type dreams now and then and have for many years. And its always about this woman/female/girl whatever that make me feel so complete and so loved and so accepted and fuzzy all over. I think that you have to look within to find her/him and then when you no longer have to look outside yourself for this person maybe a real physical person representing your dream image will appear. At least that's how I see it works with my dream woman. Everything can be found within. But that guy, I'm sure he's out there somewhere for you.