Re: ok I've given up need advice

"what do you all think about one night stands as long as safe sex is involved. what are the morals on that. is it bad. should i avoid. is it irresponsible."


Dear 79767..truly, it's what YOU THINK about one night stands that counts (and of course the person you've elected to have casual sex with!).

Please don't allow the 'mores & morals' of a socialized society (religious or otherwise) determine what YOU need as a human being. We are ALL sexual beings. So much of our programmed behavior is directly attributable to 'those in charge' who set the standards to keep the 'herd in line with the program' & to instill fear and self doubt.

What makes something bad? Mal-intent & prioritizing your needs OVER AND ABOVE that of the other person's needs.

As long as communication lines are open, have at it, imo.

You don't state whether you're male/female. If you're male, know beforehand, that women aren't always successful at delineating between emotions & casual sex. We tie in emotionally to those whom we are intimate.

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