Re: Please, remember...

I do agree with you....it is hard for me, because everyone in my family thinks that its no big deal...my husband doesnt think we have the money to pay for counseling, but I am going to find a way to get him in some. We don't want our little girl to have to keep talking about it though...I feel like that will imprint it even more on her....what do you think. She has only mentioned it 2 times since it was first told to us, and the last time she said, if brother trys to lick my tooter again, I will beat the tar out of him.....this was just yesterday...She hasn't talked about it to anyone but me and her dad, and her Teacher at pre-school is aware of the situation and looking out for her. I am going to see what kind of resources our county have for dealing with this...I do have private insurance, but I am not sure we can afford the cost of it. We make less that 40K together, I am a state worker, and my husband is a technition. We pay 212 / week in daycae alone and its hard. Although, I do feel like it doesn't cost a drop next to my childrens well-being. Please dont think I want to sweep this under the rug, its just scary. Thats why I came here for advice. I will check out the links you sent. Thanks for all your prayers and advice...Oh btw...Matthew didnt go away to camp....he is attending a summer daycamp at the same church daycare that my daughter gos to. I do think though, that he did see alot of hard core p 0 r n on the internet and my parents house. The only other thing I can think of that could be happening, is that my neice has lived with my parents since she was 12, and I sometimes wondered about her....and he gos to the movie with his papa alot by themselves.....I have wondered about him some.....I will keep you posted. Let me know if you have any further advice.