Hi. One reads and hears how many changes can occur when on a fast or a cleanse. People may change jobs, or move and stir things up in their relationships. Necessary shifting I think is drawn out of the experiecne of cleansing. Your husband sounds like he needs to deal with his fear (maybe fear of how you might change and how that may effect him)converting into control and threat ... but that is his journey. This is your journey. Perhaps this is an opportunity to strengthen boundaries with your family? I agree that the more we educate on ourselves on something that we are doing that goes against societal grain the more confident and even fierce we can become against the tide of their lack of understanding and unmoved or undealt with personal issues.