very good. i can understand not bringing up negatives, especially if you are trying to facilitate healing. i think addressing something before it happens can actually set that thing in motion. so much of healing is dependent on what a person thinks. in fact, i think we have seen examples of this very thing right in these forums - the placebo effect in reverse.
not asking direct questions to him is not right. there you have a legit gripe.
what i find fascinating is that this kind of discourse is precisely what should be on the support forum. here, people are seeking the truth and the hard answers should be there showing the way and demonstrating the light that is at the end of the tunnel, NO MATTER HOW DARK THAT TUNNEL IS.
thank you for your imput and expertise and experience in these matters. i greatly appreciate it, as do others, i am sure.