I hadn't really thought about it as a community event but you are exactly right--cause between the two of us--we know the whole county and then some. And it is funny that you put pig roast because my fiance had actually suggested something to that effect--I like that idea:-) I am sooo excited & we are going to announce it in the paper to invite many of the guests--there are just so many people & the more ideas that you all keep posting, the more excited I get--I'm not going to make it stressful--its only one day & hey it starts out our married life together--we already understand & respect one another better than most couples I know--and some of them are already married. I'll keep you updated. I have a blog on here that is titled Firefighter Wedding--I haven't got the new ideas posted on there though. Keep spilling out your ideas.