I am apalled that someone would be so cruel as to attack you for not being here. Obviously, they have a very self-centered view of the universe. I stumbled onto this website a few weeks ago and have been reading everything in sight. Your postings are of particular interest as I have excema on my hands that blisters, breaks open, and leaves deep wounds that take about a month to heal. Once they heal, I can count on another outbreak about 2-3 weeks after any very stressful situation. At least, this is what I've come to connect to the outbreaks. I currently take care of my mother who has Alzheimer's and the stress is pretty intense. As you can imagine, I have an ongoing outbreak. Just about get it healed and there are those little blisters, starting between my fingers again. Pretty soon, on my palms and we're off.
Anyway, enough of my diatribe. Please take good care and take time to nurture yourself.