I understand completely! It baffles me each and every time it occurs, I used to call him on it, but now I just ignore him. If we're watching a show for instance and a man an woman get into an intense argument and the man gets all in the womans face he'll say things like, you can't talk to a woman that way or thats not right etc. Same thing if he sees some sort of abuse in a movie for instance, he'll sit there and inocently say thats not right... It's sickening