hi,
from my point of view, if you could avoid it, then you should. Control yr seizure for 3 yrs, and then start driving.You still have yr full life ahead of you, why do you want to take a risk. Imagine hitting another auto at 60m/h head on.... I fee yr dads on the right path. I suggest dont worry if you miss out a part of life now, make sure you dont do something which you might regret...