I wish I lived next door to you, too! I bet where you are it's cooler than where I live!!!
If you click on Dr. Clark at the top of this website, she will show you the order of the cleanses and what you need to complete them. Yes, there is a difference in the parasite and bowel cleanse. They are very different. The products you need for the cleanses you may purchase at a health food store or online. The different enemas are explained on this website. They are all good. At 42, you could have peri-menopause, which is the "before" of menopause. Dr. Schulze (click on the top of this website) has some really good things to help you through menopause.