turns out he didnt reply to my messages,because he was SLAMMED at work. I also sent him a message about me feeling gay in front of him and his friends. he said, "U take yourself way too seriously,we were just joking with you. No need to take offense. We all give each other crap. Just part of being one of the guys." Maybe by him saying that,he might feel same about tbn issue....
I didnt mention the tbn thing to him. Im just letting that go.