Re: Convo with my mother. Should I be annoyed, disapointed, etc. whatever?

Her mistake is the way she told you about not wanting to take you there. Her boyfriend probably has an issue or two, and is most likely loosing more money there then he's willing to admit.

If I was your dad, I'd not want to take you to a casino either. It is like giving illegal drugs to your own child.

Hence, stay away from casinos. I've met more then one person who had to go through serious therapy to get rid of the urge to gamble, and only after they lost everything including their relationships and houses and jobs...

So, tell your mom you don't appreciate it that she shows understanding to her boyfriend, but not to you, and that as her daughter you deserve better tone of voice when talked to. Also tell her that she could've suggested some other equally fun place or something even better then a casino and take you there for your birthday. If she can't see her mistake, it means it's time to learn to take care of yourself. Then, get together with some friends, and do fun things with them (as long as they are good for you - avoid drugs, alcohol, casinos and bad people like the plague).

Love and hugs,

signed: someone who if he was your dad would take you to at least a good game or maybe a race for your b-day :-) Tweet