Re: Thanks.

I like the following advice, but I can also see an issue within yourself, of feeling put down by your mother, and she treating you like as child.

One way of getting to know yourself and your mother, and for that matter anyone else is to study Transactional Analysis (TA). It shows you how people communicate with one another and how we tend to react to other people. Basically it all comes down to a good self-image and self-confidence to be able to handle other people. Please study:

Summary of the self-help psychotherapy course at:
http://www.hypoglycemia.asn.au/articles/self-help_personal_growth.html#PSYCHO...

in its entirety. It looks at biological as well as "pychological" factors that helps a person to achieve their full potentials. After eliminating biological handicaps, it concentrates on the self-image as being at the core of one's personality affecting most departments of life, social interactions with others and includes an assertiveness training program, articles on communication leading to significant relationships and values clarification. It gives an insight into oneself as well as of other people, providing one with the tools to establish satisfying relationships.
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