Re: Finallyfaith
haha! yes by all means be sure to come back when you are feeling more negative!! lol!
but seriously, i actually do notice this. here is the thing, no one know you better than yourself, and EVERYONE knows this. so if you project an attitude (and believe me people are very aware of the attitude you project about yourself, even if that awareness if only subconscious) that says "i don't really like myself and don't much care about me" then people will naturally say "well he knows himself bettr than anyone else knows him and if he thinks hes not such a great person to be around, he must be right!" see what i am saying?
people are very "psychic." i put this in quotes cuase i don't mean they can predict the future i just mean they really do pick up on the energy that comes off of you. and by consciously changing how you treat yourself, you can change the attitude you project out into the world.
its not the ultimate cureall for loneliness, but its certainly can be big part of an affective way of moving beyond it.