I am glad to see your BF is better. I am sure EFT works in some cases but mine was quite difficult it goes way back to childhood and the therapy was the only thing to bring it out. I have hidden it all of these years. What works for some may not work for others. I am not knocking the therapy but it seems to simple to erradicate a problem that took years to develop your personality etc...BPD is serious personality disorder and will not be cured that simply.