Re: Another selfish argument

It's a hazy area because if he doesn't want it and she does, she's likely to still have the child and he'll pay till she' 18. If he does and she doesn't, she's likely have an abortion no matter what he feels. It's a tough issue to tackle, and it's hard to think of an obvious solution.

I know what they were trying to say, I just don't think it's that hazy, hard, and complicated.

I think the system is fine and men should have to pay for child support. Yes I know some women are crule and will do anything,p oke holes through condoms and such just to get Pregnant but I still think the guy should think twice before having sex. I've met far too many guys that are just out there to get some, and if their duties as fathers were to be illiminated they would be even freer to get some however they wanted.

I said before if a couple has sex, they should talk about for what they would do if they became pregnant. If the boy does not want a child he should make sure the woman and him are on the same page. If they are a loving honest couple they should have no problem. the ones that have problem with support are the ones who are dishonest, and cheating. I'm not saying it's always the male, but usually it is.

Unfortunately biology made women have to get pregnent, believe I would love to see men being pregnent, but that's jsut the way it is. So yes I believe women should be able to do anything with her body, since it's HERS!! The child is only the man's once it's born, and yes he should most definitely be held responsible, if he wanted it or not.