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Re: FYI
Jeez Atalanta,
You saying <<<"I see selfishness, arrogance, and hippocracy in that.">>> about me for no reason is just plan old rude! And that was an angry statement, and your rudeness and anger was the ONLY thing that struck a chord in me! And you refuse to even apologize for it. End of THAT story!
And as far as the IVF YES people only do it for selfish reasons. And yes, even I had my child for a selfish reason at the time because I wanted a child that looked like my husband and I, without thinking of what any outcome would be for my child. Why do you think I can recognize it in others???
And it's not judging ANYTHING by saying that people doing IVF are thinking of themselves (I am not thinking about people's "goodness" or Religion) it's just a FACT of life.
No, I do not know what it's like not to be able to concieve. But if I did and I grieved over it, I would only be thinking of myself.
I'm sorry you cannot have children. Maybe it's happened for a reason.