REALITY CHECK !!!ok then let's take away your husband...your house....and now your pregnant..from some guy whom you thought loved you.....and in his mind he just wanted to have sex with you....now your distraught...as you already have two wonderful children....and you are working at a job that pays only 9 bucks an hour...the guy who got you pregnant you havent seen....you can barely afford to pay the bills .....you are backed into a corner....you cant give your kids the essentials let alone the wants they have...WHAT DO YOU DO??? and not what your mom did ....WHAT DO YOU DO?