Listen Amber, I would never have an abortion. I don't need to kill someone, or rob a bank to know it is wrong. I would never do those things either. This isn't about judging you. This is about declaring that something is wrong so other people don't do it. I don't want to judge you. But, I do want to say to other people not to do it. It doesn't make me happy to make someone feel bad if that is what you think.