It is very rude and destructive for any woman to consciously say anything negative to anyone, including herself. No woman is to say, "Oh, I am ugly: I am a very sick person." You will attract sympathy with these tantrums all right, but it will destroy your mental creativity. The correct attitude is to protect your mental creativity. "I am a grateful woman, I am the center of the entire creation, and everybody is born from me. I am the Universe." That is the minimum attitude you need.
That being said
I do not practice what I preach
LOL
Sometimes I do
Sometimes I don't
Sometimes I like to get a rise
From those that won't
Sometimes I perservere
Other times I select the Path
of least resisitance