The other people who have responded to your message are saints! I personally would bring out the big guns, use the "F" word. Dropping the "F" bomb ususally suprises the oppressor, then leaves him/her speachless. The more you use the mighty "F" the less it has an effect, so go easy. I hate to encourage anyone to say that to their mother, but sounds like she has it coming. Sheeesh.