You lost him somewhere along the way. He's a lazy bum. Chances are this is the way he'll end up, sorry to break the news. Question is: What are you going to do now that you know the future? Not a life I want to live, I'll tell you that. Maybe, just maybe it's time for a showdown. But you better be ready once he calls your bluff! Either way, it's worth the risk. He can change for the better or you can find better. Life doesn't wait for anybody...time's wasting...