A-TEN-CHUN!!!!! Tough decisions have to be made here, private. Husbands should be with their wives...case closed! I'm as big a military fan as you can find, but one thing is certain: Military guys don't make for stable, loving, "traditional" husbands. Don't blame me, I didn't make the rules! I acknowledge reality. There's a certain type of guy that loves military life. If you want a husband by your side, then, go find one who doesn't yearn for the smell of army fatigues and K-rations. Dismissed, soldier!