Definitely keep us updated! And I will offer any advice that I have (I don't profess to know everything). Sometimes just talking about it with other people helps me to feel better.
Maybe, I should have referred to when men "go to their caves" instead of "rubber bands" but the concepts are very similar. The gist of it is that sometimes men need some space to figure things out. As women, we want to talk about things and hash them out right away. For me, at least, it is hard to step back and wait it out a little bit.
I look forward to hearing what you think of the book. Keep us posted.
Have a good day!
Jen