Both you guys are giving me great advice that I intend to use. I'm going to look for the "Mars and Venus on a Date" I've already purchased the other book. I didn't know that it was geared towards marriage, but the title has something to do about communication. I'm going to read these and hope that they help me to understand him or whoever else comes along. I'll update you and let you know how things are going. I don't know how long it will take, but I promise to give an update, and if I have questions along the way PLEASE answer them. Thanks!