Advice not really appropriate here as I guess you have been through everything already in your head over and over and hopefully the counsellor will help you explore what you want to do. However, I would make just one teeny tiny suggestion. If you haven't already done so - please let all your relatives and his relatives know (with proof and very clearly) that THERE IS NO MONEY LEFT, whether this annoys your husband or not. At least this might make them stop stealing from you thinking he has it all, AND you'll find out who the real friends are.