My online dating experience, Irene, and Jill's reply.
The online dating experience is alright. You can't take it too seriously. One of my friends has had a membership for 2 years and I said to him "Dude, don't you get sick of feeling like you're a constant guest on Love Connection?" It's sort of like being on trial all of the time. But it was worth the money spent. It enabled me to distract myself dating other people while I was pulling away from a 9 year on-again/off-again relationship.
I have plans with Irene but I already don't expect it to go anywhere beyond dating. That's what my instinct and dating experience tell me but that's alright. It's nice to know her and we have tenative plans for next week.
Here's a per-batim copy of Jill's reply. I don't take it too seriously (haha) It looks like she spent 2 seconds typing that letter and recycles the last two sentences of the letter that she sent before. I think "shades of grey" can be a term for BS artists who want to have their cake and eat it too. Am I too Judgemental? I think not but I'll take one of you forum readers more seriously then her. Here's Jill's letter:
Hotmail
Subject: RE: I'll admit that I overreacted, but it's best that we go our seperate ways...
Matt,
Whatever you think, You just need to learn that things aren't always black and white. There are many shades of grey out there. You shouldn't be so judgemental of things you know nothing about. I'm a kind and giving person. I consider this to be your loss as a friend goes. Good luck in all of your endeavors. I wish you all the best.