Re: Caller and email blocking an ex-girlfriend after 9 years of on again/off-again...

Don't forget the lesson, but do forgive. Forgiveness has nothing to do with her or her actions. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.

Sounds like you were simply seeking affirmation. Yes, she's playing a rather obvious game. However, you may want to look at why you allowed it to get this far. It may help in the future to see similar patterns much sooner and to handle them in a more balanced and healthy way.

May we all find what we need.