Caller and email blocking an ex-girlfriend after 9 years of on again/off-again...

I completely broke off relations last Sunday with someone I had a 9 year on-again/off-again relationship. A few years ago I moved to Arizona from the DC area that I grew up in. When I moved back to the DC area she asked me to resume the relationship in December of 2002. Fast forward to April 2oo3 and I'm getting these last minute date cancellations and excuses that don't add up. So I ended the relationship and was so upset that I didn't talk to her until Octobert of 2003.

I meet up with her and she starts giving me free weed (I don't drink or do hard drugs anymore) yet making excuses as to why I can't spend a few hours at her place or why she can't spend the night. One of those excuses was that her roommate (Hannah) who she allowed to move in wouldn't do certain required tasks around to house because she didn't like me. Isn't it Amy who let Hannah move in? Not the onher way around?

When I offered her to spend the night she said that she hadn't slept with anyone since I broke up with her. I find that impossible to believe because she was always 30-60 pounts overweight yet when she finally got thin (A year and a half ago), Ms. Co-dependentcy isn't going to take advantage being able to attact a better mate? I don't buy that.

Why is she giving me $400 worth of weed when she won't even spend a night with me? According to her she's been so busy lately. You don't give an ex money without there either being lingering feelings or there's another reason I thought of.

Maybe she's giving me free weed so that my phone number will show up on her caller ID thus making her seem in demand by her exes to her new partner (even though she claims that she isn't dating anyone.)

Last Sunday was the final straw. My roommate told me that Amy called so I returned her call to her Cell Phone and reached an answering maching. This Cell Phone of hers has email text message capabilitis which allow her to send and receive 180 character messages.

She sends back a text message only saying "Not doing well." Well, I call back that same phone that she's sending me email messages from and once again; no answer. I typed an email message back to that Cell Phone saying "It's a COMPLETE INSULT to have someone screening out your calls from the same phone that they're emailing text messages from" She sent another message using her bogus stock line when she wants to cover her rear saying "Why do you have to make things so much harder?"

I send a final email message to her cell phone saying that "I'm writing a final email to your regular email address since this cell phone has an 180-character limit"
The letter that I sent to her email box goes exactly like this per-batim:



I want to leave a message on your email address as opposed to your cell so that you can't delete it in fron of whomever and you'll know exactly why I want nothing to do with you.
My roommate told me that you called while he was on the other line and it rang 4 times. So I thought that you called and I emailed your cell phone immediately. You sent messages saying "not doing well" and all of that stuff. I attempt to call the same cell phone that you emailed me from. You email me back after I initially told you that "I want nothing to do with you" and I told you this because here you are sending me emails from this phone yet you aren't answering it which is obnoxius. I attempt to respond to that email message from your phone, in person on the phone. Once again, no answer. I was digusted that you were emailing me from this same phone and can only say "don't want to talk"
It's a COMPLETE INSULT to have somebody screening your calls out from the same damn phone that you're emailing me from.
Even if you were talking the Hannah you should've been respectful enough to answer the phone. Remember a few years ago when I said "I'm moving to Arizona" and you expressed your doubts? Well, I moved there, so I guess my words aren't as cheap as yors. So here's some new words from me:
"Once I get certified (and hopefully get work in the computer field but even if I don't I'm west-bound) and I'm employed in the DC area, I'm moving to Arizona within a year. 'You've had your cake and eaten it too' for the last time with me."



I then on that Sunday caller blocked her phone numbers and her email addresses. The Email block is king because the person that you're blocking doesn't even know that they're being blokced unlike the phone. As a result they think that you're strong enought to resist their excuses and letters. The great thing is that I'm not agonizing myself by constantly checking the caller ID or my email box for her messages.

Matt