confused

I've been called some awful names directly (no punches pulled) and when I've complained I've been told "It's a debate forum; if you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen"-- and I think Daizy was one of them. What has Klyd done that is so much worse? I need to know because if there are different rules for different people then none of us knows when we'll be "warned" or for what. Even some of the team members have openly proclaimed their opposition to some of us, so the playing field is definitely not level.