The Bible does NOT say judging is to be avoided by those in Christ. In fact, it says it should be what happens...but it is to be unhypocritical(take the log out of your own eye before removing a speck from that of another AND condemn what needs to be condemned yet allow for restoration of an individual). How else would there be any church discipline and restoration between any individual and God if those that are His tolerate false doctrines, are all embracing of those that teach them, and are willing to swallow, throw a blankie over, wink or close their eyes to sin? Believers are to uphold righteousness and earnestly contend for the gospel of Christ and allow the Holy Spirit free reign to work as a result of their doing so. Isn't that what the Bible reveals to those spending time with God?