well we just had a chat on the phone he doesnt know what he wants, he knows hes been treating me badly but he doesnt know if he wants to change his attitude he said he needs a few weeks apart to think things through he needs to find out if he wants to settle down and give more time to some1 else! hes just a f**king selfish bastard if u ask me! sorry am not in a very good mood more angry then upset!