Re: No Sex. Really love?

Thank you Paulette for your response, you really kind of know how things are in my head. As far as your questions are concerned. After 7 years I did not cheat, I thought about it a lot, to this day I don't know what I would have done if the opportunity would have presented itself. Of course, I did not put myself in that situation (I was married and respected that)

Before we were married (my 1st wife) we dated for 2 years. We decided early on that we would remain virgins. It was hard, we were all over each other all of the time. We got married and all of that went away. I remember vividly complaining about not having sex or being touched, etc. and she would say, "if you really need sex, you will have to get is somewhere else."

I know that this sounds so weird. I knew she had loved for me and we were great "roommates" but well you know...

As for my new wife and I we have been married six months. She brought two kids into the situation and that has been a challenge to adapt to. Thank you for taking a look at this, you advise was great. Now where should I go? I know I need to decide for myself but it so nice to have someone's point of view that is "away" from the situation.

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