I have been giving my relationship a good look to see were it fundamentaly went wrong. After a few restless nights and a consultation of my own rational thoughts I have decided to talk things through with her. She had a good idea of writing things down so that we can both see each others side so that we can work through it. I know we can make things work but there is already a lot of hurt to overcome and the distance between us is going to make things difficult. We need to decide if we are in this relationship or our we to hurt to overcome our problems so that we can have a strong base to grow on again. I just want there to be understanding if we break up and definately if we don't so that we can still cherish the moments that we have had together. Thanks for the replies and I will keep you posted. Love hurts and I know now that I am in love because some of my rational thoughts, such as long distance relationships, do not have as much of a bearing on things anymore. Love is difficult but I have it for and need it from this girl.