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would you click edit and delete your reply to me, the whole thing if you can? I got confused between emailing and posting--my mental/spiritual fog has cleared, but not sleeping messes with my intelligence.

Wren pointed out that I did exactly what I was trying not to do. And, I don't know Andreas last name, but I think I got an apology from him. sigh, Now I owe him one.I would have responded by email to him, but I couldn't, and then I have to admit, I was stupid.
I deserved being chewed out by wren. Didn't make it any easier.
Boy do my shouldners "ache".
thanks!