Well you mean well but still I have no answers to my questions.
Perhaps somone else will read my original post and enlighten me?
Maybe I can enlighten you somewhat. Sexual technique is very inportant to a man. If a woman doesn't give proper oral sex, can't kiss with passion, and or has a bad sense of rythm then all of the love in the world won't make for a great orgasm. Also I believe that all love is really based on lust and the desire to mate with someone who you find attractive. There are men who have great personalities who I love but I don't want to have sex with them. You see it really is about basic animal needs.