Ok, I will try not to be so harsh,but being kind is not going to change things! You say you want help over coming the jealousy thing,and that IS your big problem! You could probably have a great time with this gal if it wasn't for that. First off this girl seems to be more socially mature than you and this will cause you suffering needlessly. Be more like her! Have other girl friends party with other girls like she does with her many friends be open and a good ''friend'' and if you or she has a thing with some one else accept it! Kick your jealousy out the door and get used to the facts of life! Still too harsh? Well I'm sure if you hang around this forum long enough that some one will tell you what you want to hear.