gera, I am almost clueless myself! You sound so centered and awake. Caring, loving, introspective and hot too! You seem to have so much to offer that I can't believe he could be so cold. You may have made a few mistakes but look how much effort you put into changing that. He may not be literally unfaithful but in a sense he is for breaking vows or promises to be compassionate understanding and forgiving He seems to be the one with issues that need to be worked out. He also seems to be the one not making an effort!