I can't remember who posted it, but I read a message from someone regarding the lack of a sexual relationship with his wife, and the effects it has had--how he is now having sex with someone else, etc. What I remember most is how he said that although he may be betraying his marriage and his wife now, SHE betrayed the marriage and him by neglecting him, etc. That posting has resonated with me, very deeply. I feel betrayed. My husband is not being faithful to our marriage and/or my needs. I have been kind of posting here and there about my situation and I appreciate feedback bigtime. Maybe he is just not man enough for me. Maybe he is just petty. Could he possibly be THAT hurt that, knowing how I feel about the whole thing, totally deny any affection and intimacy whatsoever? It is getting to the point where I kind of don't want what he's got, even if he did want me. What a pathetic statement and situation. Jesus Christ. Did I mention I am smart and hot? hahahaha