Re: Giving Up On Love!!!

Angela, whether it's fair or not, you have to play the game with the cards that were dealt. I don't want to hear any more about these extra pounds that are keeping you from a good guy. Don't go on any stupid and dangerous diet or become an Ally McBeal because that is the road to hell. Do you exercise frequently? Do you eat junk? These questions gotta be answered because the guys you want to date are the same guys who want to date pretty women. You say you're pretty and this and that and I tend to believe you. Your writing style tends to lead me in the direction that you're extremely honest. All your personality traits seem to be hitting the target. For whatever reason, right or wrong, guys of the caliber you're gunning for want a physically appealing woman. Make yourself more appealing over a systematic, scheduled, realistic time period. Fifty-five pounds is a challenge that is workable, I'll tell you that right up front. If you were 100 over I'd say you better lower your standards, but I'm not saying that. Keep your A+ qualities and systematically upgrade your average ones. You'll be amazed at how many top-notch guys will notice you while you're "training". I wouldn't be surprised at all if with your spirit you landed the guy you want within months of your new program. Tweet