Everything is resolved in heaven. It already happened/is happening/ will happen... I think earthly things seem important while we are her but like taking off a sandbag, when we die, weight of the world comes off of us. I imagine someone hurting inside so much inside that the weight is too hard to bare that weight must be very heavy indeed. I have asked God to kill me a hundred times so that I can go home but contemplating suicide is something divine love would never understand. If we are still here then there are still lives we need to touch. It such a joy to be there but here is not so tough knowing how short a time it is to be in pain... Those that die still effect those that live in the spirit realm...but the unclean spirits that shed on the way to the light can also effect the living. I think if we have any kind of love for humanity then we would want to clean up our act and leave peacefully so as not to leave our unhealthy flesh(karma stuff) laying around affecting those we love.