I'm not sure what YOUR problem is then. Apparently you are Mr. Perfect and you seem to be receiving applauds from every direction. If you ARE what you say you are, then you are by definition an anomaly. Don't even try to tell me that SOOOO many Dads are what you claim to be. Statistically, from all the men I know, 2% can say they truly do help out with the house/kids etc. My last post, when I said men need to "occasionally do this or that" to help out, well what I mean, is that if you "occasionally" do EVERYTHING, you will be doing SOMETHING every single day.
BTW, I don't consider a man helping out as being "Romantic". It's part of a partners JOB. It's simply a respect issue with me--not a "love" one.