I was going to mention that. Try working your PC muscles too, the muscles that help stop your urine flow when you're going to the bathroom. I started doing them about two weeks or so ago and I'm already noticing more control. You can also pull down on your testicles whenever you feel yourself close, as the testicles draw up into the body when you're ready to ejaculate so pulling them down a bit helps some as well. I read about another idea that I'm trying out now: actually going through the act of self-gratification, but stopping just short of an orgasm, and seeing how long you can possibly go before you know if you do anything else it's going to hit, then you stop. All it's done so far is double my sex drive but I haven't been doing it too long ;) lol