I don't think I've misunderstood. I think that one or two people are simply making the decision on what stays and doesn't and there are no set guidelines. For instance, up above a poster asked if anyone had a source for good sex stories and was given a "friendly reminder" by blueduck that there will be no posting of URLs for sex sites...that is not what this support forum is for.
But just below that we have someone describing in detail how to give a handjob. Apparently this is okay to be supportive of but not the guy who is interested in sex stories...he is told to google it.
Lets get serious here and be a bit more even handed with these posts...or at least set down sdome real guidelines.